I am so excited to start this project and to kick it off on the right foot, I decided to take myself out on an old-fashioned date - dinner and a movie. I got many comments on facebook about the fact that I went out all dressed up and alone. Some people even felt sorry for me!
But I want to re-assure you - there is nothing pathetic or sad about going out with yourself. Notice my choice of words - with myself. I wasn't alone. I was with great company.
I believe that once you get to know yourself better, your true likes and dislikes, without being influenced by someone else, only then will you be able to truly be in a relationship with someone. Self love and self-appreciation have to come first.
Take a look at the video I made - my before, after and after-after the experience of going to the movies all dressed up. I went to the movies before, but I would hide under average clothes. This time I made a statement of being comfortable in dressy clothes, as I was indeed on a date :)
How do you feel about going out alone?
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